Twinkle tact: Guide to holiday drive-through lights etiquette

It’s that time again! Grab your coziest blankets, pile into the family car, and pack a snack with a thermos of steaming cocoa, because holiday magic is calling. 

While Chicago is renowned for its rich holiday traditions, one of the newest and most dazzling is the Christmas drive-through light displays. These enchanting spectacles turn the city’s winter nights into a glowing celebration of twinkling lights, vibrant colors, and festive cheer. With holiday tunes filling the air, this unique tradition is the perfect way to make lasting memories under a canopy of sparkling wonder from the comfort of your car.

To ensure everyone enjoys the experience, it’s important to follow a few simple etiquette guidelines. Respecting the flow of traffic, maintaining safety, and showing consideration for other visitors are key to making the event enjoyable for all. Whether it’s your first visit or an annual tradition, embracing good etiquette enhances the festive spirit and helps spread holiday cheer.

Here are a few things to keep in mind to ensure that all spectators have a merry and bright night.

Research your route

Before embarking on your journey of holiday joy, take a little time to plan your route for the best experience. There are two ways to enjoy these seasonal spectacles. The professional displays are usually more elaborate and may feature synchronized music, animated characters, and larger-than-life installations. Some may require online reservations in advance and most charge a per-car fee. On the other hand, neighborhood light displays are often more charming and personal. Many residents go all out decorating their homes, and you can find some hidden gems by exploring different communities. Some areas even have "holiday light tours" or map out the best displays.

In recent years, it’s become increasingly common to find curated lists of the most dazzling homes and light displays in your neighborhood or beyond. Social media is your best friend here–many festive enthusiasts have already done the legwork, sharing detailed routes and must-see stops. A quick search might uncover the perfect pre-planned path, saving you time and ensuring you don’t miss a thing.

If you prefer to chart your own adventure, there are plenty of free route-planning apps to help guide the way. Popular options like Waze, Google Maps, Apple Maps (for iPhone users), or Komoot make it easy to map out a custom tour of twinkling lights. So, whether you follow a well-traveled trail or blaze your own, a little preparation will make your holiday light journey all the more magical.

Snap the magic

Every great holiday adventure needs a photographer! Assign someone in the car–not the driver–to capture the magic. Whether it’s the dazzling light displays, cozy moments with cocoa, or candid laughter, these festive snapshots will make for cherished keepsakes long after the sparkle wears off. Use a smartphone or camera to snap photos and videos of your favorite sights, but don’t forget to enjoy the view too! Rotate the role so everyone gets a chance to be in the moment and in the memories.

Delays are part of the magic

Expect long lines and delays as holiday light displays draw big crowds, especially on weekends. While weekends may seem convenient, you’ll be sharing the road with hundreds of other families eager for the same festive fun. For a smoother, more relaxed experience, consider heading out on a weeknight. With early sunsets, you can begin your light-seeking adventure as early as 5:30 p.m., leaving plenty of time to enjoy the magic before bedtime.

Driving decorum

You’re now ready to hit the road. Once you arrive at the light show, remember that a little etiquette goes a long way. Expect lines and delays, but don’t be part of the problem—keep the holiday spirit shining bright and avoid exchanging colorful holiday greetings with your fellow holiday revelers. Here are a few key tips to follow:

• Dim the Lights: Turn off your headlights or switch to parking lights to keep the displays visible to everyone.

• Keep it Rolling: Maintain a steady pace and leave plenty of space between you and the car ahead. Save tailgating for game day at Soldier Field!

• Mind the Speed Limit: Some displays post speed limits–stick to them and resist the urge to stop.

• Quick Stops Only: If you must stop to soak in the sights, pull to the side, if possible, but be swift. Remember, there’s a line of eager holiday-goers behind you.

• Do not reverse! EVER! For the love of holly and mistletoe, never back up! It’s dangerous and could turn festive fun into a traffic tangle.

Following these simple rules ensures everyone enjoys a safe and magical experience. Spread joy, not road rage, and let the lights guide you through a night to remember!